Watching Damsels in the Dark: Sundance 2018

Jason and I attended the Sundance Film Festival again this year. This annual indie binge has been a tradition of ours for well over a decade. The Sundance Film Festival’s unpredictability is gripping. You never know who is going to show up, and you never know if you’re going to see the next Napoleon Dynamite or something that just blows like dynamite. We saw four films this time, none exploded on us.

The Price of Everything

Joined by our friends Dan and Monica, we began our Sundance experience via calculating The Price of Everything. This documentary took a complex topic, how the perceived value of paintings and sculptures is warped through auctions, and explored it from multiple perspectives. Many of the issues addressed were relevant to society as a whole. I’m no art buff, but that didn’t taper my enjoyment of The Price of Everything. There was a Q&A afterward with the director and various other members of the crew. Q&As are my favorite thing about Sundance; they are deliciously-detailed heroin for the cinematically curious.

All but one of the shows we saw this year were followed by a Q&A.
All but one of the shows we saw this year were followed by a Q&A.

Dark Money

This was probably my favorite film we saw this year at Sundance, though there were some other close contenders. Dark Money, which won the Sundance Institute/Amazon Studios Producers Award, examined the consequences of the Citizens United decision- the bribe money now funding our politicians under the sacred umbrella of “free speech.” This documentary was disturbing but eye opening. The fascinating Q&A after the film was followed by a lengthy discussion at Impact Hub. Dark Money will be distributed by PBS later this year; I’d recommend checking it out even though it will make you despise politicians even more than you already do.

Puzzle

I loved that this film didn’t portray saints, just people. The characters were all flawed and complex, like real human beings. Afterward, the director showed up for an interesting Q&A.

Damsel

This quirky movie was an irreverent tribute to and satire of Westerns. While it had its difficult-to-watch moments, I enjoyed it as a whole. Jason and I always go to Sundance with indie expectancies- slow and absurd are all part of the experience. So, we weren’t surprised to find both traits in this film. We saw this flick with my brother and his wife; I don’t think they had their expectations calibrated correctly for indie viewing because they weren’t overly impressed.

Jason and I went through an array of reactions at the Sundance Film Festival this year, from dismay to delight. We learned some, laughed some, hung with friends some… and became completely disenchanted with America’s so-called democracy. Okay, maybe that’s being a little dramatic, but isn’t drama a key element of film?

A Day at the Beach

A few years ago, Jason and I decided that providing an opportunity for our nieces and nephews to do a fun activity together was a better Christmas present for them than adding more toys or knickknacks to their seasonal stashes. This year, in lieu of Christmas gifts, we took them to Provo Beach Resort.

Our mini croquet game deteriorated into a free-for-all, more or less.
Our mini croquet game deteriorated into a free-for-all, more or less.

Jason constructed a crossword puzzle that, when solved, gave the kids a list of all the outing options they could choose from. Creating a crossword puzzle is a simple task when you are a genius… or know how to find websites that do clever stuff. As already indicated, out of the many puzzle possibilities, the kiddos picked Provo Beach Resort.

I'm not a height seeker, but I'm also not a height avoider.
I’m not a height seeker, but I’m also not a height avoider.

We met up at Provo Beach Resort at 4 PM and stayed until it closed at 11 PM, with a little break to eat dinner at a Chinese restaurant down the block. Those seven hours passed fast as we competed at mini croquet, bowled strikingly, dangled from the ropes course, fired at each other in the laser tag arena, twirled on the carousel, and played in the arcade.

Isabelle had no hang ups about hanging.
Isabelle had no hang ups about hanging.

Isabelle loved the ropes course and had no fears about being aloft, which is more than I can say for myself. I’m not a fan of heights, but I always force myself out on the ropes to lessen that trepidation.

Some of the other adults were also hesitant to separate themselves from the ground.
Some of the other adults were also hesitant to separate themselves from the ground.

Everyone loved our laser battles. What’s not to love about taking out your family members in the name of team glory? We shuffled players each round, but every winning team had Jason on it. He’s kind of the king of infrared combat among my kin.

I'm decent at Skee-Ball but not good enough to warrant this kind of victory dance.
I’m decent at Skee-Ball but not good enough to warrant this kind of victory dance.

Our day at the beach was not sandy but was well received by both the kids and adults in our party. It was also well received by Jason and me, so merry Christmas to us!

A Bear Lake Break

Jason and I decided that it had been too long since his family spent some quality time cooped up together. So, for Christmas this year, we gave his kin a cabin… for a few days.

The cabin was spacious enough to comfortably fit our sizeable group.
The cabin was spacious enough to comfortably fit our sizeable group.

Jason’s parents used to own a cabin. We have many pleasant memories of snowmobiling, sledding, ATV riding, gaming, and movie watching at that timbered retreat, which influenced our decision to rent this particular type of accommodation.

Bear Lake is often called the "Caribbean of the Rockies" because of its brilliant turquoise hue.
Bear Lake is often called the “Caribbean of the Rockies” because of its brilliant turquoise hue.
Family togetherness can be stimulating or stifling... or a little of both.
Family togetherness can be stimulating or stifling… or a little of both.

We reserved Shelton Lodge near Bear Lake, a 4700-square-foot log cottage that sleeps 26, for a few nights and enjoyed the rustic ambiance of its massive fireplace, comfy theater room, expansive decks, and impressive views.

Our run was a bit rough with snow-covered trails, but it was thoroughly enjoyable.
Our run was a bit rough with snow-covered trails, but it was thoroughly enjoyable.

What did we do during our Bear Lake break? We began it by opening Christmas gifts to each other, an activity improved by the festive decorations ornamenting the lodge. A large group of us went on an 8-mile run the next day over snowy paths and muddy hills. It was pleasant enough for shorts, not a typical December day. Although the lake was too frigid to encourage even digit dipping, we spent some time on its shores that afternoon throwing snowballs at each other and taking silly pictures.

A city park provided us easy, reedy access to the water's edge.
A city park provided us easy, reedy access to the water’s edge.
I took some goofy pictures of the gang by the lake.
I took some goofy pictures of the gang by the lake.

Eating took a surprisingly-large portion of our time. Rigorous commitment to snacking requires relentless dedication. We stuffed ourselves at meals, before meals, in between meals, after meals, and during any activities that could be synchronized with face stuffing. Among our surging stream of snacks, we happily sampled some of the town’s finest chocolate-covered raspberries, a famous local treat. Delightful! Our group also took full advantage of the cabin’s theater room, and we gladly integrated ingestion into our cinema viewing, as one should.

Where's the mountain?
Where’s the mountain?

We played many rounds of Exploding Kittens and Codenames. We didn’t play Blasting Canines though; I’ve heard that game is a little unstable.

The moon floated above the lake like a filigreed eye entranced by its own fiery reflection.
The moon floated above the lake like a filigreed eye entranced by its own fiery reflection.

The day-to-day mandates of life often inhibit the regular remembrance of the more important things. You forget to chuck snowballs at your siblings or make your mom wear a cone of shame amidst the daily grind; it’s easy to see how families unintentionally drift apart. So, I’m glad Jason and I successfully created an opportunity for some familial inseparability at a beautiful and entertaining spot.